A good explanation!

The wife came home early  and found her husband in their bedroom making love to a very attractive  young woman.
         
And  she was somewhat upset. ‘You are a disrespectful pig!’ she cried. ‘How  dare you do this to me — a faithful wife, the mother of your children!   I’m leaving you. I want a divorce right  away!’
         
And the  husband replied, ‘Hang on just a minute love so at least I can tell you  what happened.’ ‘Fine, go ahead,’ she sobbed,’ but they’ll be the last  words you’ll say to me!’
          
And the husband began — ‘Well, I was getting into the
car to  drive home, and this young lady here asked me for a lift. She looked so  down and out and defenseless that I took pity on her and let her into the  car.
         
I noticed  that she was very thin, not well dressed and very dirty. She told me that  she hadn’t eaten for three  days.
         
So, in my  compassion, I brought her home and warmed up the enchiladas I made for you  last night, the ones you wouldn’t eat because you’re afraid you’ll put on  weight. The poor thing devoured them in  moments.
         
Since she  needed a good clean-up, I suggested a shower, and while she was doing  that, I noticed her clothes were dirty and full of holes, so I threw them  away.
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Then,  as she needed clothes, I gave her the designer jeans that you have had for  a few years, but
don’t wear because you say they are too  tight.
         
I also gave  her the underwear that was your anniversary present, which you don’t wear  because I don’t have good  taste.
         
I found the  sexy blouse my sister gave you for Christmas that you don’t wear just to  annoy her, and I also donated those boots you bought at the expensive  boutique and don’t wear because someone at work has a pair the  same.’
         
The husband  took a quick breath and continued – ‘She was so grateful for my  understanding and help that as I walked her to the door, she turned to me  with tears in her eyes and said,

A-Z of life

A–Accept Accept others for who they are and for the choices they’ve made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B–Break Away Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

C–Create Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

D–Decide Decide that you’ll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E–Explore Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.

F–Forgive Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G–Grow Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H–Hope Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I–Ignore Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J–Journey Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you’ll grow.

K–Know Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L–Love Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there’s room for endless happiness.

M–Manage Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you’ll suffer less stress and worry. Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N–Notice Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O–Open Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there’s still muc h to be thankful for.

P–Play Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q–Question Ask many questions, because you’re here to learn.

R–Relax Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S–Share Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T–Try Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U–Use Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used will bring unexpected rewards.

V–Value Value the friends and family members who’ve supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

W–Work Work hard every day to be the best person you can b e, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X–X-Ray Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you’ll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y–Yield Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.

Z–Zoom Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

Does Love need a Reason…??

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:

Lady: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?

Man : I can t tell the reason.. but I really like you..

Lady : You can t even tell me the reason… how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man : I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.

Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!

Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm… because you are beautiful

because your voice is sweet,

because you are caring,

because you are loving,

because you are thoughtful,

because of your smile,

because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man s answer.

 

 

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side,

here is the content:

Darling, Because of your sweet voice that I love you…Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

 

Because of your care and concern that I like you. Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love you..

Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore I cannot love you..If love needs a reason, like now, There is no reason for me to love you anymore. 
 
Does love need a reason? .NO! Therefore,
I still LOVE YOU…

“True love never dies for, it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away“

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Immature love says: ‘I love you because I need you.’ Mature love says ‘I need you because I love you.’

“Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays……”

Language of Love

      Care is a Language of Love
Sacrifice is a Language of Love
Service is a Language of Love.
Gifting is a Language of Love.
Sharing is a Language of Love.
Time is a Language of Love.
Sex is a Language of Love.
Attention is a Language of Love.
Patience is a Language of Love.
Support is a Language of Love.
Forgiveness is a Language of Love.
Non-Judgment is a Language of Love.
Understanding is a Language of Love.
Mercy is a Language of Love.
Compassion is a Language of Love.
Kiss is a Language of Love

:: Tips of Life ::

Spend some time alone.
Talk slowly but think quickly.
Learn the rules then break some.
Not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
Once a year, go some place you’ve never been before.
Open your arms to changes, but don’t let go of your values.
Never laugh at anyone’s dreams.
Do not be fooled by compliments.
Respect for yourself, respect for others, responsibile for all your actions.
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, coz’ that’s the only way to live a life once but complete
May what you see in the mirror delight you, and what others see in you delight them
May you have enough happiness to be sweet, enough trails to be strong, enough sorrow to be human, enough hope to be happy

Good friends

Good friends listen to each other.
Good friends don’t put each other down or hurt each other’s feelings.
Good friends try to understand each other’s feelings and moods.
Good friends help each other solve problems.
Good friends give each other compliments.
Good friends can disagree without hurting each other.
Good friends are dependable.
Good friends respect each other.
Good friends are trustworthy.
Good friends give each other time to change.
Good friends care about each other.

:: Duty of a FRIEND ::

  •Be a secrete admirer of your friend
  •Treat your friends the way you want to be treated.
  • Keep secrets that are told to you.
  • Pay attention when your friend is talking.
  • Keep your promises.
  • Share things with your friend.
  • Tell your friend the truth.
  • Don’t prove him/her wrong in public
  •Try to understand your friend
  • Pull Your Friend Away From Making Mistakes
  • Try to Teach & learn Good Things
  • Stick up for your friend.

Friendship is all about…

Friendship is all about trust and care
For each other to be there
Without a friend you will be lonely and horrible
Sometimes it is so adorable
Just the way two friends support each other
Always remember you can rely on your mother
There must be no secrets between you
Otherwise your friendship is not true
And you have no clue what friendship is all about

enjoy life…….

First, I was dying to finish my high school and start college and then I was dying to finish college and start working then I was dying to marry and have children and then I was dying for my children to grow my old enough so I could go back to work but then I was dying to retire and now I am dying. And suddenly I realized I forgot to live

Please dont let this happen to you appreciate your current situation and enjoy each day
To make money we lose our health, and then to restore our health we lose our money..
We live as if we are never going to die, and we die as if we never lived.

Ronak Modi

Hope

 

Every night we go to bed, we have no assurance to get up alive in the next morning but still we have plans for the coming day…….That’s Hope.